WE MAY NEVER FIND THE SAME PERSON TWICE

Lately, my life has changed me quietly. I am sure it must have been the same for you all. Textbook definitions are fading and life lessons are on upsurge. Everything that I once thought was too good to be achieved, not sounding relatable, boring, very much philosophical, etc. have not just shown signs of life, but are paving my way to wannabe me. Life happens 

The biggest contrast I truly enjoy between me and my husband is the way we see things. His base is extremely logical, and I am thin-skinned about emotions. I look at life from an emotional angle, and he has a practical response towards everything that happens to us. He is literally the sky, and I am the earth, but we do meet on the horizon. Such chemistry can exist between two people, irrespective of the relation. The point I am trying to put here is, you may be the best shade of blue, but if life wants to steer you to become purple, you are going to dilute yourself with red, and for good.

There are years when nothing happens, and then there are days when years happen. As I have grown, I have singularly isolated myself with majority of the people I know. This does not mean that I am ignorant or arrogant. The people I care for are in my silence, not in the background noise. I am sure everybody who has navigated a bit through life would echo my thought, that the most difficult task in this extensively dynamic world is not to change, but to remain who you are. Please read that again. It takes a mountain of effort to stick to your morals, values and patience. It is not easy to remain silent when you have the courage to defend. It is not easy to explain the path to those who can’t see it. Elevation does not only give height, but it also gives sight. The question is, if it is so difficult, why do people not change?  Afterall, change is the only constant thing. The answer is, “Because in the end, it’s not between you and people, it is between you and God.”

If you have somebody who dilutes your life in a good way, please respect them. When things would go south and you’ll be boxed with life’s limited choices, you will long to just be with such a soul. They havn't aced life either, but they do possess that magical power of being the wind that brings the sun out, by just existing. Yes, change is constant, but only for good, by the good.